Spelman has done a great job throughout the novel of explaining repair performed by human beings, or her term, homo reparans. In chapter seven she has a concluding statement of,
“In any event, repair is necessary because – theological views aside – we are manifestly imperfect creatures in an imperfect world” (Spelman 136).
She notes that we never will be perfect beings. I feel as though constantly repairing is a way of striving for perfection. With so much in the media today of “the perfect body” or “the perfect marriage,” sometimes we humans forget that imperfections are simply ok. For example, I’m sure we’ve all seen a cover of People or Cosmopolitan magazine with an airbrushed celebrity on the cover. Their looks are not even real nor attainable. Yet, as homo reparans we continue to strive for this perfect image because it feels natural to us. Bettering ourselves makes us feel good. But if the idea of perfection is not achievable, what are we working for? Spelman state,
“It reminds us of some facts about the human condition that perhaps we tend to find disturbing” (Spelman 139).
This reminds me of the idea of simply being ourselves. Spelman never truly touched on the concept of self help or self repair for the sake of one’s own happiness. This is another important form of repair that is constantly done by humans. Every time we exercise, eat healthier, or see something we strive to be like, we are choosing to repair ourselves. Without self repair, we would all be lazy and have nothing to work for. But with too much of it, it can be dangerous. An example could be having an eating disorder, such as anorexia or bulimia. This can display a reason why Spelman may find the human condition occasionally disturbing.
The aspect of theological views has reminded me of my own religion of Catholicism. Spelman explains,
“There is no such thing as a science of apology or a science of reconciliation” (Spelman, 138).
As a Catholic, I received the sacrament of reconciliation when I was in second grade. Reconciliation is when you tell the priests your sins, or your wrongdoings, in order to receive forgiveness from God and repair your relationship with him. In my opinion, this was a large concept for an eight year old to grasp. This can be another form of repair humans experience. There’s repairing objects, relationships with other humans, repairing ourselves, and repairing one’s relationship with God. In the Catholic Church, you can receive this sacrament as many times as you want. Growing up in Catholic schools for the past thirteen years of my life, I went at least once every year after second grade but I never went on my own out of a pure longing to go. Every time I went, I would confess the typical sins of a child; I’ve disrespected my parents, I’ve been judgmental, I said something cruel, I’ve told a lie. Once I confessed, I felt as though I had a fresh new start to be a better person. After confessing these sins, you are supposed to be sorry with all your heart and have the intent to never commit the sins again. But how was I supposed to know that I never would? I apologized to God and I knew he forgave me without hearing his direct words to me, such as when humans apologize and forgive each other there are these exchanges made. There are many differences between repairing a relationship with God and repairing a relationship with another human.